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【特稿】一碗紅豆湯出賣長子名分

 

readbean以撒和利百加婚後長期不能生育,就祈求神﹐"以撒因他妻子不生育﹐就為他祈求耶和華﹐耶和華應允他的祈求﹐他的妻子利百加就懷了孕。"(創25:21)神應允了以撒和利百加的祈禱,依照以色列人的長子繼承法,小的應該服侍大的,但是神不照人的規定,而是按照神的旨意,大的要服侍小的。"這就是說﹐肉身所生的兒女﹐不是 神的兒女。惟獨那應許的兒女﹐才算是後裔。"(羅9:8)

利百加生產的日子到了﹐腹中果然是雙胞胎。先產的嬰兒是身體發紅、渾身有毛、如同皮衣一般﹐他們就給他起名叫以掃〔以掃就是有毛的意思〕。接著又生了以掃的同胞兄弟,手抓住以掃的腳跟而出生,因此給他起名叫雅各〔雅各就是抓住的意思〕。利百加生下兩個兒子的時候﹐以撒已經六十歲。兩個孩子漸漸長大後,以掃善於打獵﹐以撒就常讓他在田野狩獵;雅各為人安靜,以撒常讓他住在帳棚裏讀書。以撒愛以掃﹐因為常吃他的野味﹐而利百加卻愛雅各。

長子的名分為什麼很重要?這是因為神與亞伯拉罕的立約有關:"神就對利百加說:'將來大的要服事小的。'正如經上所記:'雅各是我所愛的﹐以掃是我所惡的。'"(羅9:12-13)長子的名分所以重要,因為有了這個名分不只成為一家之主,承受雙倍的產業。"人若有二妻﹐一為所愛﹐一為所惡﹐所愛的所惡的都給他生了兒子﹐但長子是所惡之妻生的﹐到了把產業分給兒子承受的時候﹐不可將所愛之妻生的兒子立為長子﹐在所惡之妻生的兒子以上﹐卻要認所惡之妻生的兒子為長子﹐將產業多加一分給他﹐因這兒子是他力量強壯的時候生的﹐長子的名分本當歸他。"(申21:15-17)中東地區的風俗也有兄弟間買賣長子名分的事。

有一天﹐雅各在家熬湯,真準備食用的時侯,以掃從田野打獵回來就累昏了。以掃有氣無力地對雅各說:"今天我累昏了﹐求你把這紅豆湯給我喝吧!" 雅各一生機靈過人,早就覬覦長子名分,今天是千載難逢的機會。他對以掃說:"你今日把長子的名分賣給我,我把一碗紅豆湯給你。"

以掃貪戀世俗﹐急急地說:"我將要餓死,這長子的名分於我有甚麼益處呢?也不能解決我的肚子飢餓問題。"雅各暗暗高興不己﹐說:"你今日對我起誓吧﹐把長子的名分賣給我吧!"以掃毫不猶豫就對雅各起了誓,把長子的名分賣給雅各。於是雅各將餅和紅豆湯給了以掃﹐以掃吃了喝了,便起來走了。這就是以掃輕看了他長子的名分。"恐怕有淫亂的﹐有貪戀世俗如以掃的﹐他因一點食物把自己長子的名分賣了。" (來12﹔16)

這一段聖經金句告訴我們﹐今天正有不少人,只顧眼前,"貪愛世俗如以掃"。一是關於以掃的,他自始至終都沒有把自己長子的名分放在一個正確的地位,他看重屬肉體的需要勝於屬靈的需要,這也就是當今很多基督徒的人生觀和價值觀,這是非常危險的,也是非常可憐的。聖經中關於 "恐怕有淫亂的﹐有貪戀世俗的" 不是指男女肉體關係,而是指向神的心術不正。以掃所以二罪俱犯,既出讓神所賜的長子的福氣,又貪圖口腹的享受。但一轉眼,他又後悔,他想奪回長子的名分,不是深刻悔改,而是頓生惡念,要殺他的弟弟雅各。

"以掃因他父親給雅各祝的福﹐就怨恨雅各﹐心裏說﹐為我父親居喪的日子近了﹐到那時候﹐我要殺我的兄弟雅各。"(創27:41)顯然因為以掃並不單在這一碗紅豆湯上貪愛世俗,乃是他的心早已在許多事情上貪愛世俗,只顧眼前,體貼肉體,對屬靈的事滿不在乎,以致為一碗紅豆湯也肯把長子的名分出賣。以掃可能還以為自己佔了便宜,因為長子的名分不過一個名而已!按當時而論,他根本沒有損失什麼。

二是關於雅各的,他似乎自始至終都很關心這 "長子的名分",從某種意義上講,好象有些處心積慮,好象一直在等待這個機會來換取 "長子的名分"。其他的我們不談,就說他這種看重屬靈方面的事,看重真正的福氣的這種智慧,的確是與我有益的。聖經一再教導我們,要思念天上的事情,不要思念地上的事情,因為地上的事情是短暫的,是變幻無常的;天上的事情是永恆的,是永不改變的......。"有人把利百加大兒子以掃的話告訴利百加﹐她就打發人去﹐叫了他小兒子雅各來﹐對他說:'你哥哥以掃想要殺你﹐報仇雪恨'。"(創27:42)利百加和以撒打發雅各到兩千里以外的故鄉,去找雅各的母舅拉班,逃避以掃的追殺。

"原來我們不是顧念所見的,乃是顧念所不見的,因為所見的是暫時的,所不見的是永遠的。"(林後4:18)顧念所不見的,才是真有智慧的人﹔只顧眼前好處的,就是愚昧人。

 

      聖經金句 (Bible Verses)

喜樂 Joy

喜樂的心乃是良藥;憂傷的靈使骨枯乾。箴言 17:22
A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones. Proverbs 17:22

然而,我要因耶和華歡欣,因救我的 神喜樂。哈巴谷書 3:18
yet I will rejoice in the LORD, I will be joyful in God my Savior. Habakkuk 3:18

要常常喜樂,不住的禱告,凡事謝恩。帖撒羅尼迦前書 5:16-17
Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances. 1 Thessalonians 5:16-17

饒恕 Forgiveness

主啊,你本為良善,樂意饒恕人,有豐盛的慈愛賜給凡求告你的人。詩篇 86:5
You, Lord, are forgiving and good, abounding in love to all who call to you. Psalm 86:5

你不要說:“我要以惡報惡”;要等候耶和華,他必拯救你。箴言 20:22
Do not say, “I’ll pay you back for this wrong!” Wait for the LORD, and he will avenge you. Proverbs 6:14

你們饒恕人的過犯,你們的天父也必饒恕你們的過犯;馬太福音 6:14
For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. Matthew 6:14

你們不饒恕人的過犯,你們的天父也必不饒恕你們的過犯。馬太福音 6:15
But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins. Matthew 6:15

你們各人若不從心裡饒恕你的弟兄,我天父也要這樣待你們了。馬太福音 18:35
This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother or sister from your heart. Matthew 18:35

謙卑 Humility

敬畏耶和華是智慧的訓誨;尊榮以前,必有謙卑。箴言 15:33
Wisdom’s instruction is to fear the LORD, and humility comes before honor. Proverbs 15:33

敬畏耶和華心存謙卑,就得富有、尊榮、生命為賞賜。箴言 22:4
Humility is the fear of the LORD; its wages are riches and honor and life. Proverbs 22:4

凡事不可結黨,不可貪圖虛浮的榮耀;只要存心謙卑,各人看別人比自己強。腓立比書 2:3
Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves. Philippians 2:3

但他賜更多的恩典,所以經上說:神阻擋驕傲的人,賜恩給謙卑的人。雅各書 4:6
But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says:“God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.” James 4:6

驕傲 Pride

驕傲來,羞恥也來;謙遜人卻有智慧。箴言 11:2
When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom. Proverbs 11:2

驕傲只啟爭競;聽勸言的,卻有智慧。箴言 13:10
Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves. Proverbs 13:10

驕傲在敗壞以先;狂心在跌倒之前。箴言 16:18
Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall. Proverbs 16:18

但他賜更多的恩典,所以經上說:神阻擋驕傲的人,賜恩給謙卑的人。雅各書 4:6
But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says:“God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.” James 4:6

忍耐 Patience

愚妄人怒氣全發;智慧人忍氣含怒。箴言 29:11
Fools give full vent to their rage, but the wise bring calm in the end. Proverbs 29:11

並且你們要為我的名,被眾人恨惡,惟有忍耐到底的,必然得救。馬可福音 13:13
Everyone will hate you because of me, but the one who stands firm to the end will be saved. Mark 13:13

不但如此,就是在患難中也是歡歡喜喜的。因為知道患難生忍耐。羅馬書 5:3
Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance. Romans 5:3

我們行善,不可喪志;若不灰心,到了時候就要收成加拉太書 6:9
Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Galatians 6:9

你們也當忍耐,堅固你們的心,因為主來的日子近了。雅各書 5:8
You too, be patient and stand firm, because the Lord’s coming is near. James 5:8

溫柔 Meekness

回答柔和,使怒消退;言語暴戾,觸動怒氣。箴言 15:1
A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. Proverbs 15:1

溫柔的人有福了,因為他們必承受地土。馬太福音 5:5
Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. Matthew 5:5

用溫柔勸戒那抵擋的人;或者 神給他們悔改的心,可以明白真道。提摩太後書 2:25
Opponents must be gently instructed, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth. 2 Timothy 2:25

只要以裡面存著長久溫柔、安靜的心為妝飾;這在 神面前是極寶貴的。彼得前書 3:4
Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. 1 Peter 3:4

嫉妒 Envy

不要為作惡的心懷不平,也不要向那行不義的生出嫉妒。詩篇 37:1
Do not fret because of those who are evil or be envious of those who do wrong. Psalm 37:1

心中安靜是肉體的生命;嫉妒是骨中的朽爛。箴言 14:30
A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones. Proverbs 14:30

在何處有嫉妒、紛爭,就在何處有擾亂和各樣的壞事。雅各書 3:16
For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice. James 3:16

生氣 Anger

當止住怒氣,離棄忿怒;不要心懷不平,以致作惡。詩篇 37:8
Refrain from anger and turn from wrath; do not fret—it leads only to evil. Psalm 37:8

好生氣的人,不可與他結交;暴怒的人,不可與他來往。箴言 22:24
Do not make friends with a hot-tempered person, do not associate with one easily angered. Proverbs 22:24

愚妄人怒氣全發;智慧人忍氣含怒。箴言 29:11
Fools give full vent to their rage, but the wise bring calm in the end. Proverbs 29:11

生氣卻不要犯罪.不可含怒到日落。以弗所書 4:26
In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry. Ephesians 4:26

我親愛的弟兄們,這是你們所知道的,但你們各人要快快的聽,慢慢的說,慢慢的動怒,因為人的怒氣並不成就 神的義。雅各書 1:19,20
My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires. James 1:19,20

災難 Calamity

謹守口與舌的、就保守自己免受災難。箴言 21:23
Those who guard their mouths and their tongues keep themselves from calamity. Proverbs 21:23

民要攻打民、國要攻打國、多處必有地震、饑荒.這都是災難的起頭。馬可福音 13:8
Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom. There will be earthquakes in various places, and famines. These are the beginning of birth pains. Mark 13:8

憂愁 Worry

你們不要憂愁、因靠耶和華而得的喜樂是你們的力量。尼希米記 8:10
Do not grieve, for the joy of the LORD is your strength. Nehemiah 8:10

主雖使人憂愁, 還要照他諸般的慈愛發憐憫。耶利米哀歌 3:32
Though he brings grief, he will show compassion, so great is his unfailing love. Lamentations 3:32

凡勞苦擔重擔的人,可以到我這裡來,我就使你們得安息。馬太福音 11:28
Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Matthew 11:28

我留下平安給你們、我將我的平安賜給你們.我所賜的、不像世人所賜的.你們心裏不要憂愁、也不要膽怯。約翰福音 14:27
Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid. John 14:27

應當一無掛慮,只要凡事藉著禱告、祈求和感謝,將你們所要的告訴神。神所賜出人意外的平安,必在基督耶穌裡,保守你們的心懷意念。腓立比書 4:6,7
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6,7

因此, 你們是大有喜樂, 但如今, 在百般的試煉中暫時憂愁。彼得前書 1:6
In all this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. 1 Peter 1:6

患難 Trouble, Suffering

義人多有苦難,但耶和華救他脫離這一切。詩篇 34:19
The righteous person may have many troubles, but the LORD delivers him from them all. Psalm 34:19

神是我們的避難所,是我們的力量,是我們在患難中隨時的幫助!詩篇 46:1
God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Psalm 46:1

耶和華本為善,在患難的日子為人的保障,並且認得那些投靠他的人。那鴻書 1:7
The LORD is good, a refuge in times of trouble. He cares for those who trust in him. Nahum 1:7

為義受逼迫的人有福了,因為天國是他們的。馬太福音 5:10
Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Matthew 5:10

不但如此,就是在患難中,也是歡歡喜喜的。因為知道患難生忍耐。羅馬書 5:3
Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; Romans 5:3

我想現在的苦楚,若比將來要顯於我們的榮耀,就不足介意了。羅馬書 8:18
I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us. Romans 8:18

因為你們蒙恩,不但得以信服基督,並要為他受苦。腓立比書 1:29
For it has been granted to you on behalf of Christ not only to believe in him, but also to suffer for him. Philippians 1:29

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