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【家庭更新 】恩愛夫婦營參加學員夫婦見證

 

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近期在溫哥華的恩愛夫婦營的營友

 

1) 我非常清楚記得太太第一次和我說要去夫妻營的時候,我的反應非常激烈,我不認為是必要的,我覺得夫妻營應該是給那些有很多問題的夫妻去的營會。當然,妻子並沒有放棄,她用了 3 年時間試圖說服我。直到有一天,她告訴我,如果你想我們的婚姻關係更好,就跟我去。反之,如果你不重視我們的關係,認為這是沒有必要的,就不去。在那個時候,我是被強迫去了夫妻營。老實說,夫妻營跟我想的真的完全不同,我覺得比去度蜜月還好。如果不是太太的堅持,我相信我都不可能有今天享有那麼美好的婚姻。參加夫妻營給我和太太帶來了三個非常大的得著:好的關係、真的朋友、愛的重生。

2)  參加了營會後瞭解到,夫婦關係原來是有很多實際可行的改進方法的。這在營會中有了豐富的學習。還認識到與我一同生活了 20 多年的妻子,我竟然對她很多的原生家庭背景和內心冤屈不瞭解。我沒想到在營會中我會流淚!而且三天中流了比以往幾十年流的還多。這些是愧疚的或是委屈的淚水,也有感恩的。流淚之後,愧疚和委屈也都過去了。將來可以整裝上陣,好好地事奉神,好好地愛妻子,愛家人。營會還給我們提供了很好的方法,我們可以操練。所有的營會同工和帶領夫婦都很認真,實在是太辛苦了,求神紀念他們。(一位牧師參加教牧營的分享)

3) 通過三天的學習分享,真實地感覺到神的恩典和神的同在!神說:凡勞苦擔重擔的,就到我這裡來,我必使你們得安息!神的應許確實是信實的!神的恩典真的是夠我們用的!我們敞開心扉向神祈求,向神認罪!夫妻彼此傾訴和認罪,使我們的心更加貼近,彼此諒解,更加相愛!感謝家新夫婦營的幫助和支持!願更多夫婦得益處。

4) 是神的恩典,帶領我們夫婦參加這次營會。使我有機會來認真回顧自己的婚姻,檢查自己是否完全按神的旨意,來對待自己的愛人。學會應用營會學到的多種方法來帶領自己的婚姻,學會如何表達愛,如何饒恕自己愛人的過錯,以及認罪。在營會中見證了聖靈在會中和我身上以及愛人身上的工作,使我們夫婦更多認識神的大能,更愛主。一副圖畫是我和太太坐在湖邊青草地上,陽光燦爛,微風輕拂,一切都那麼美好。

5) 16 年後再次參加夫妻恩愛營,不僅溫故而知新,使夫妻關係更上一層樓;而且再次印證了 16 年前的學習是何等重要!最感恩是:兒子和兒媳婦和我們共同參加了這次營會。看到他們夫妻關係的和睦,真知道 16 年來我們的婚姻關係深深地影響下一代的婚姻關係!16 年後看到果效!(一位牧師第二次參加營會的分享)

6) 感謝主的奇妙恩典,在我生命中所做的一切,在我們的婚姻接近 20 年,因為我的過失接近破裂的時候,感謝主帶領我們一起走進教會尋求神,這也是我來參加夫婦營的主要目的。我在這次營會中,通過認罪饒恕得到了完全的釋放。這兩年來,罪咎感一直壓抑我,我也沒有機會和適當的場合認罪,這次營會給了我這樣的機會。感謝主,我得到完全釋放,舊事已過,一切都是新的了!願我們在基督裡合而為一,一生一世到永遠!今年的多倫多粵語教牧營剛在過去的週末完滿結束,八對教牧和四對帶領夫婦歡聚一堂,三天兩夜中經歷神滿滿的祝福。參與者從結婚剛過十年到近六十年,在主裡彼此鼓勵和扶持,真是弟兄和睦同居,何等的善,何等的美!感謝帶領夫婦們認真預備,真誠分享,非常美好的團隊合作!

(此婚姻篇由家庭更新協會加拿大分會供稿。在加拿大的各個地區,該會將舉辦多次恩愛夫婦營和進深營(二級)的營會。2020 年營會的報名即將開始,下一次加西國語恩愛夫婦營是在 3 月 21-23 日。地點是在美國華盛頓州。而在東部大多倫多地區,卡加利,渥太華及滿地可等地,2020 年都將安排營會,有興趣參加者請盡早報名。在各個地區,陸續開始有為牧者專門預備的營會,歡迎牧者和宣教士免費參加。查詢詳情,請聯絡溫哥華辦公室(604) 875-0203或瀏覽家新網頁:www.cffc.ca 下載報名表。"爲主得萬家,家家爲主活。")

 

      聖經金句 (Bible Verses)

喜樂 Joy

喜樂的心乃是良藥;憂傷的靈使骨枯乾。箴言 17:22
A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones. Proverbs 17:22

然而,我要因耶和華歡欣,因救我的 神喜樂。哈巴谷書 3:18
yet I will rejoice in the LORD, I will be joyful in God my Savior. Habakkuk 3:18

要常常喜樂,不住的禱告,凡事謝恩。帖撒羅尼迦前書 5:16-17
Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances. 1 Thessalonians 5:16-17

饒恕 Forgiveness

主啊,你本為良善,樂意饒恕人,有豐盛的慈愛賜給凡求告你的人。詩篇 86:5
You, Lord, are forgiving and good, abounding in love to all who call to you. Psalm 86:5

你不要說:“我要以惡報惡”;要等候耶和華,他必拯救你。箴言 20:22
Do not say, “I’ll pay you back for this wrong!” Wait for the LORD, and he will avenge you. Proverbs 6:14

你們饒恕人的過犯,你們的天父也必饒恕你們的過犯;馬太福音 6:14
For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. Matthew 6:14

你們不饒恕人的過犯,你們的天父也必不饒恕你們的過犯。馬太福音 6:15
But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins. Matthew 6:15

你們各人若不從心裡饒恕你的弟兄,我天父也要這樣待你們了。馬太福音 18:35
This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother or sister from your heart. Matthew 18:35

謙卑 Humility

敬畏耶和華是智慧的訓誨;尊榮以前,必有謙卑。箴言 15:33
Wisdom’s instruction is to fear the LORD, and humility comes before honor. Proverbs 15:33

敬畏耶和華心存謙卑,就得富有、尊榮、生命為賞賜。箴言 22:4
Humility is the fear of the LORD; its wages are riches and honor and life. Proverbs 22:4

凡事不可結黨,不可貪圖虛浮的榮耀;只要存心謙卑,各人看別人比自己強。腓立比書 2:3
Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves. Philippians 2:3

但他賜更多的恩典,所以經上說:神阻擋驕傲的人,賜恩給謙卑的人。雅各書 4:6
But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says:“God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.” James 4:6

驕傲 Pride

驕傲來,羞恥也來;謙遜人卻有智慧。箴言 11:2
When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom. Proverbs 11:2

驕傲只啟爭競;聽勸言的,卻有智慧。箴言 13:10
Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves. Proverbs 13:10

驕傲在敗壞以先;狂心在跌倒之前。箴言 16:18
Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall. Proverbs 16:18

但他賜更多的恩典,所以經上說:神阻擋驕傲的人,賜恩給謙卑的人。雅各書 4:6
But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says:“God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.” James 4:6

忍耐 Patience

愚妄人怒氣全發;智慧人忍氣含怒。箴言 29:11
Fools give full vent to their rage, but the wise bring calm in the end. Proverbs 29:11

並且你們要為我的名,被眾人恨惡,惟有忍耐到底的,必然得救。馬可福音 13:13
Everyone will hate you because of me, but the one who stands firm to the end will be saved. Mark 13:13

不但如此,就是在患難中也是歡歡喜喜的。因為知道患難生忍耐。羅馬書 5:3
Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance. Romans 5:3

我們行善,不可喪志;若不灰心,到了時候就要收成加拉太書 6:9
Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Galatians 6:9

你們也當忍耐,堅固你們的心,因為主來的日子近了。雅各書 5:8
You too, be patient and stand firm, because the Lord’s coming is near. James 5:8

溫柔 Meekness

回答柔和,使怒消退;言語暴戾,觸動怒氣。箴言 15:1
A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. Proverbs 15:1

溫柔的人有福了,因為他們必承受地土。馬太福音 5:5
Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. Matthew 5:5

用溫柔勸戒那抵擋的人;或者 神給他們悔改的心,可以明白真道。提摩太後書 2:25
Opponents must be gently instructed, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth. 2 Timothy 2:25

只要以裡面存著長久溫柔、安靜的心為妝飾;這在 神面前是極寶貴的。彼得前書 3:4
Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. 1 Peter 3:4

嫉妒 Envy

不要為作惡的心懷不平,也不要向那行不義的生出嫉妒。詩篇 37:1
Do not fret because of those who are evil or be envious of those who do wrong. Psalm 37:1

心中安靜是肉體的生命;嫉妒是骨中的朽爛。箴言 14:30
A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones. Proverbs 14:30

在何處有嫉妒、紛爭,就在何處有擾亂和各樣的壞事。雅各書 3:16
For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice. James 3:16

生氣 Anger

當止住怒氣,離棄忿怒;不要心懷不平,以致作惡。詩篇 37:8
Refrain from anger and turn from wrath; do not fret—it leads only to evil. Psalm 37:8

好生氣的人,不可與他結交;暴怒的人,不可與他來往。箴言 22:24
Do not make friends with a hot-tempered person, do not associate with one easily angered. Proverbs 22:24

愚妄人怒氣全發;智慧人忍氣含怒。箴言 29:11
Fools give full vent to their rage, but the wise bring calm in the end. Proverbs 29:11

生氣卻不要犯罪.不可含怒到日落。以弗所書 4:26
In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry. Ephesians 4:26

我親愛的弟兄們,這是你們所知道的,但你們各人要快快的聽,慢慢的說,慢慢的動怒,因為人的怒氣並不成就 神的義。雅各書 1:19,20
My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires. James 1:19,20

災難 Calamity

謹守口與舌的、就保守自己免受災難。箴言 21:23
Those who guard their mouths and their tongues keep themselves from calamity. Proverbs 21:23

民要攻打民、國要攻打國、多處必有地震、饑荒.這都是災難的起頭。馬可福音 13:8
Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom. There will be earthquakes in various places, and famines. These are the beginning of birth pains. Mark 13:8

憂愁 Worry

你們不要憂愁、因靠耶和華而得的喜樂是你們的力量。尼希米記 8:10
Do not grieve, for the joy of the LORD is your strength. Nehemiah 8:10

主雖使人憂愁, 還要照他諸般的慈愛發憐憫。耶利米哀歌 3:32
Though he brings grief, he will show compassion, so great is his unfailing love. Lamentations 3:32

凡勞苦擔重擔的人,可以到我這裡來,我就使你們得安息。馬太福音 11:28
Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Matthew 11:28

我留下平安給你們、我將我的平安賜給你們.我所賜的、不像世人所賜的.你們心裏不要憂愁、也不要膽怯。約翰福音 14:27
Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid. John 14:27

應當一無掛慮,只要凡事藉著禱告、祈求和感謝,將你們所要的告訴神。神所賜出人意外的平安,必在基督耶穌裡,保守你們的心懷意念。腓立比書 4:6,7
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6,7

因此, 你們是大有喜樂, 但如今, 在百般的試煉中暫時憂愁。彼得前書 1:6
In all this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. 1 Peter 1:6

患難 Trouble, Suffering

義人多有苦難,但耶和華救他脫離這一切。詩篇 34:19
The righteous person may have many troubles, but the LORD delivers him from them all. Psalm 34:19

神是我們的避難所,是我們的力量,是我們在患難中隨時的幫助!詩篇 46:1
God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Psalm 46:1

耶和華本為善,在患難的日子為人的保障,並且認得那些投靠他的人。那鴻書 1:7
The LORD is good, a refuge in times of trouble. He cares for those who trust in him. Nahum 1:7

為義受逼迫的人有福了,因為天國是他們的。馬太福音 5:10
Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Matthew 5:10

不但如此,就是在患難中,也是歡歡喜喜的。因為知道患難生忍耐。羅馬書 5:3
Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; Romans 5:3

我想現在的苦楚,若比將來要顯於我們的榮耀,就不足介意了。羅馬書 8:18
I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us. Romans 8:18

因為你們蒙恩,不但得以信服基督,並要為他受苦。腓立比書 1:29
For it has been granted to you on behalf of Christ not only to believe in him, but also to suffer for him. Philippians 1:29

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